I mentioned in my last post that last Thursday I was going to spend a good share of the day with my dad on his birthday. My mom had an appointment elsewhere so I was so excited to spend some quality time with just the two of us. I had the day planned: a trip to the campus where he was a music professor for over 30 years, lunch at an amazing restaurant and a ride up the canyon to look at the end of the autumn leaves. But life rarely goes as planned.
I was greeted at my parents home by an ambulance. It’s all a blur, but I saw my dad helplessly laying in the back of the ambulance on a stretcher. “No, ” I screamed in my head! “This can’t be happening on our special day together and especially on his birthday!!” I spent the next 11 hours in two emergency rooms watching test after test be taken on my dad. He was in a lot of pain and delusional for they majority of the time. I sat by his side, feeling completely helpless. It’s too hard to explain what’s happening to my dad–his white blood count is up, his legs completely quit working, his blood pressure is very low, he’s had a lot of pain in his head and ear and the list goes on and on. He was finally admitted in ICU and as I write this, he remains hospitalized. Can I just say that it STINKS to watch parents in their elderly years! This is absolutely NO FUN!
As I’ve sat by his side over the past week, I’ve had a lot of time to ponder the great life of Robert Downs. Here’s a just a few things I love about this man:
1. Throughout his entire life, he’s ALWAYS been kind–even in the midst of trials and tribulation.
2. I’ve never seen my dad have a temper–he truly has always remained very calm.
3. When I turned 16, my first car was a stick-shift Toyota Corolla. Once when I started the car, I forgot to put the clutch down. The car went jerking forward though the automatic garage door making a huge hole through the door. My parents came running out of the house thinking there was an earthquake. When my dad saw me crying in the car, he gave me a hug and said “Remember that people are worth more than things. I’m glad you’re okay.” Truly words of wisdom to live by.
4. My curfew was always strictly at midnight. Once when I was driving home from a friend’s house at 12:06 a.m., I saw my dad pass by me on the other side of the street obviously out looking for me. When he arrived home, I was furious at him. I said “Don’t you trust me, Dad?” He calmly looked at me and said “I trust you but I don’t trust everyone else who’s out there.” More words of wisdom to live by.
5. My mother is the most important, most beautiful person in my dad’s life. Yesterday he called me by his bedside and said, “Do you know how much I love your Mother? Please promise you’ll always take care of her.” They have been holding hands non-stop for the past week.
Thursday night I ran to my parents home to collect some essentials for my mom so she could stay at the hospital. On my dad’s dresser was this photo:

There I am, Daddy’s little girl. A sweet peace came over me as I stared at this photo. I know everything will be okay. I have a strong belief that families are forever and that no matter what happens, I will see my dad again!
Please keep our family in your prayers. It truly is a hard time but we are still finding joy in the journey.
Thanks for being there for me!
Love, Lisa
P.S. I created the perfect matting around the photo with Perfect Layers. Although the photo is old around the edges and in it’s color, I was able to freshen it up with some layers. Perfect Layers is still one of my favorite tools ever. Also love the new designs from American Crafts Crate Paper line.